Settle and Stay or Splash in Summer?

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It’s breakup season. Couples decide whether to enjoy their summer doing their own things and hang with their friends, or stay with the one you love all summer. In summer, fights arise with who is too busy with their friends to see each other? Who is too busy with work? Who is too busy traveling? Who’s going off college? With breakups one has to decide how to do the worst thing ever in the best way possible. However, here are the top 10 worst ways to get dumped.

  1. The phrase “It’s not you, it’s me.” It a way around saying “ I’m just not that into you anymore and that they don’t want to be with you.
  2. The phrase “You just deserve better.” Just another way to say I’m just not that into you but I don’t want to hurt you.
  3. A friend. Its someone close to you, however it’s just not you. It’s shady and drives them insane. They’ll think constantly “what did i do wrong that he couldn’t just tell me?” “What if i didn’t meet their friend today?”
  4. A subtweet. Social media is unacceptable in anyway, but a subtweet… I mean, c’mon at least @ them.
  5. Transformation Tuesdays. Putting up a picture with them cropped out and posting it on social media is unacceptable. No need to make the break up go viral.
  6. A text message. Over text there just is no way to understand how sincere they are, if they’re sad, if their just ok and don’t care about doing it.  
  7. A box filled of old love. There is just no option here they just don’t want to be with you and already made the decision.
  8. A post-it. Enough said.
  9. By cheating and trying to get caught. Doing this just because you can’t bring yourself to look them in the eye and tell them the truth. You think going behind their back so they find out is better. Why? Because now they can dump you and you don’t have to deal with the pain at all?
  10. Not at all. Avoidance is not the answer. You avoid the breakup talk because you’re afraid to hurt them, well closure is what helps the pain.